Monthly Archives: November 2008

Baby Peter Connolly – how many more are out there and what hope do they have…?

brokenhomeVery little I would say. I used to be the type of kid who could not watch a creepy movie before bed and then go straight to sleep. I’d toss and turn and listen for every sound in the night which told me a monster was coming to get me too. My dad would come in eventually and sit with me until I went to sleep – ’save me from the monster’. It was all in my mind of course but such a thing was not for little Baby Peter.

17 month old Peter had a real monster living in his house – three of them in fact – and one of them was his own mother.

But last night I did a lot of tossing and turning and I wasn’t able to go straight to sleep after having watched a different kind of ‘creepy movie’. It was the investigative program Panorama and for 30 minutes it detailed every hideous detail of the baby’s life, and every shred of maladministration that condemned him to his death.

Make no mistake about it, this child never had a hope in hell of growing up – never a hope of celebrating his second birthday. He never stood a chance. I often wonder how such children manage to survive at all.

Like countless people recently I have been reading reams of print about what happened to this child and there is one thing which really grates on my nerves; it is the way the print media insist on referring to his mother as ‘the Mum’. And her boyfriend as ‘the stepDAD’ or even more abhorrently…‘her LOVER’.

The words ‘mum’ and ‘dad’ have no connection whatsoever with these two cretins – any woman can produce a baby and be a mother in the biological sense, but it takes a unique woman to be a ‘mum’. Ditto with regards to men, fathers and ‘dads’. And as for the term ‘lover’ – give us all a break please – what has love got to do with any of these people…?

Haringey Council still today refuse to admit they got it all wrong. Those social workers, and especially Sharon Shoesmith, still refuse to admit their guilt and refuse to consider resigning. Well, if they wont jump of their own accord then they have to pushed.

Little Peter’s mother is presently under protection in London’s Holloway Prison and treating everything like it is a huge laugh. She pokes her tongue out at prison guards and boasts that she will be home in time for Xmas. She gets her hair done once a fortnight at the prisons own salon…pity whoever does her hair does not make a slip with the scissors. Pity the prison does not have it’s own resident female Sweeney Todd…

Meanwhile the ashes of a little blonde haired, blue-eyed boy lay scattered in an unmarked location at a cemetery in East Finchley.

Unfortunately no-one saved little Peter from the monster in his room that night.

Updated 29/04/09:

Sentencing result expected very soon and will be announced when media reporting restrictions are lifted.

Update 01/05/09: Trial completed

19th May 2009: Sentencing 21/22nd May Central Criminal Court

Update: Baroness Scotland destroys final hope for justice

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Strictly Come Dancing – let the public have a go!

I have to admit that I am a big fan of Strictly Come Dancing and I love the whole look of the ballroom dancing game. Those great outfits the women wear and even people like John Sargent look dapper in a tux.

And the celeb’s all claim one thing in common – ballroom dancing is one of the best top rated fat burners of all; they all say they have lost heaps of weight through all the exercise and training.

But you have to admit it has become more of a popularity contest rather than a ‘best dancer’ contest and that’s why I think, for a change, why not invite members of the public to enter and be selected for dancing on the show…? I would be the first to apply !

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Do people still elope these days…?

I’m taking a break for a bit from the angst that has inhabited my posts of late…only for a short while though. One must maintain the rage at all costs…

Anyway, there’s talk of weddings in my family right now. My nephew and his fiancee have June 2009 planned for their nuptials and we have planned to fly out to Australia for the big event. I, secretly, would have like them to have done it the church-way but young couples these days tend to go for a more different and personalised experience.

And you have to be glad that they are getting married at all given the falling numbers of weddings in recent times. It’s the expense of course and this is why Ash and Lisa have postponed things three times already. I think it’s a shame – they aren’t after a big-do but when you count in venue, drinks and food just by themselves you are looking at several thousand before you even buy the dress!

I spoke to Ash the other day and told him to just elope – lot’s of people use to do it and they still do. I think eloping is kind of cool – rebellious even. I mean, it’s something that really is just for them, they don’t need to go into debt or spend their life savings to date just to put on a party for everyone else.

I know a girl who did just that six years ago; she booked a hotel in las vegas and away they went. They took four friends with them and had the time of their lives – and the family were elated for them when they returned. I don’t see it as deceitful at all – your wedding day should be with you in mind and if anyone disagrees with that then tell ‘em to shove it.

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