Daily Archives: January 11, 2008

Sir Edmund Hillary – a man who scaled a mountain

There is a saying: ‘If I have seen further than other men it is by standing on the shoulders of giants’.

Those words, spoken by the great Issac Newton, aptly describe many great people who have accomplished mammoth tasks in their lifetime and have still remained indebted to those who walked similar paths before them.

Sir Edmund Hillary, the man who saw a mountain and climbed it, has died at the age of 88. But it wasn’t just any mountain he saw, it was Mt Everest, the worlds highest peak. Along with his Sherpa guide, Tenzing Norgay, in 1953 Hillary set his sights on the summit of what had always been unattainable.  And together they reached their summit.

Too many people see ‘mountains’ rather as obstacles instead of as objectives. In front of those mountains they also see the peaks and valleys and deem them too difficult to cross. So they don’t.  People like Sir Edmund Hillary see nothing between themselves and their aim, whatever obstacles lay both hidden and in view they never allow those obstacles to get in the way.

Sir Edmund Hillary joins an elite group of people who have blazed trails on which others have walked since…Neal Armstrong and the men of Apollo 11; Roald Amundsen who was the first human to reach the North Pole; Scott and his reaching the South Pole.  They made it possible for the rest of us to follow in their footsteps, they showed that it COULD be done. Most of us will never climb Mt Everest however throughout our lives will encounter our own ‘mountains’ to climb…whether we provide the shoulder for others to stand on, or use the shoulders of others to get a better view of the bigger picture in life, we will all need the tools of courage and sheer tenacity that drove Sir Edmund Hillary and Tenzing Norgay onwards to that great day on May 29th 1953.

Truly Sir Edmund Hillary is the ‘shoulders’ that so many ever since have stood on, truly one of the ‘giants’ of mankind.

Vale Sir Edmund Hillary.

photo by Graeme Mulholland

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Post Natal Depression – the silent suffering

Heaven only knows just what was going through the anguished mind of new mother Heather Finkill a couple of days ago. Her anguish was such that in the early hours of a freezing cold morning in Farnborough, Hampshire, Heather walked 400 yards from her home and onto the M3 Motorway, dressed only in her pyjamas, and straight in front of a truck. She was struck down and killed instantly. Of course her family are in deep shock, especially her husband, as Heather only two weeks ago gave birth to twin girls.  Many people may ask just why she acted in this way, a seemingly deliberate way, when she should have been experiencing the joys of first time motherhood.

But how many of those ‘many people’ have experienced the lows that all too often cloud the life of a new mother? Speaking as a mum myself I can attest that those first few weeks can be a time of sheer happiness, or sheer hell.  Post Natal Depression, or PND, is a condition that attacks a woman at her most vulnerable time. It is indiscriminate as to who it strikes; first time Mums like Heather, or a woman with several children…we are all liable to suffer this condition.

Experts are researching this subject but are still to find exactly why women come out of hospital and then kill themselves, and sometimes their baby as well. They can describe the symptoms and even prescribe anti-depressants – which often help – but the actual sufferer just cannot adequately describe the hell they are going through. People say things like ‘snap out of it’…if only it were that easy.

New mothers do not need loads of well wishers converging on their house just after arriving home from hospital, they do not need bunches of flowers or cards, they do not need to have look after friends, visitors and relatives (albeit well meaning one’s) at a time when the mother is the one who needs all the looking after. They need understanding, proper TLC, time to adjust, time to heal. A hug, a careful eye.

Heather Finkill may have had all that, but obviously even that was not enough. Lets hope that soon there will be a solution that will be ‘enough’.

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Frances new First Lady?

The French love their reputation for being experts in the field of romance and right now the French people are fascinated by the romance between their President Nicolas Sarkozy and ex-model  turned pop musician Carla Bruni. The newly divorced President of the French Republic certainly would have ranked as one of the worlds most eligible bachelors if only he had been ‘available’ for a bit longer. He certainly didn’t waste any time in finding a companion, and however you view Sarkozy, you have to admit that the couple are charming together.

Of course the claws are out for Ms Bruni courtesy of the former Mme Sarkozy herself. Cecilia has been lowering herself by describing the women her ex husband is attracted to as ‘slappers’, or ‘des petasses fardees’, to quote the French. She has penned a book which not only slams the President but the female colleagues in his political life. Tut-tut Cecilia is your ’jardin’ so clean and tidy? Didn’t YOU have an affair whilst married?…

This all has the makings of a delightful French farce – the thin lipped ex-wife publicly dumping on the glamourous ex-model and soon-to-be-new-wife whilst Sarkozy behaves like a lovestruck teenager in the middle. Who cares though…we all like a love story and one that is made in France is sure to be a good one.

photo courtesy of Daily Mail UK.

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